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As guys, we have been taught by our parents and teachers that the best way to get a girl is for us to be nice, gentle, caring and loving guys. Just show her you care, be there whenever she needs you, be romantic, send her flowers, and constantly pursue her. And if you do this then she will develop feelings for you and will eventually fall in love with you.

Well, all this stuff may have worked in the 50s, 60s and 70s, but these wussy techniques do not really work these days. I mean, that was exactly how our dads normally courted our moms anyway, right? If it worked for them then, in theory, it would definitely work for us now, right? However, when I first started getting interested in girls, I tried doing this and just suffered through one heart break after another.

Things have changed over the years and the dating scene is no exception. So the best thing to do in getting the women you desire is to change your mindset. This means stop going after the girl. Traditionally, it was the guy who has to go after the girl. But the dating rules have changed since the time of our parents that it does not have to be this way anymore!

In fact, if you want to be successful with women – your mindset MUST be changed where your goal right now is to sexually attract her to come after you for a change... and this is NOT impossible!

You will get better results if you can draw her in and get her interested to come after you instead. Don't you think it would be easier to "close the deal" on her when she is already interested in you?

And exactly how do you do that?

Let me ask you - what differentiates a successful multi-million dollar business from a struggling or an average one?

The answer is 'differentiation'. Successful business owners knows that in order for a customer to choose their products over their competitors, they will have to come out with a product, a business system or marketing concepts that are truly different. They have to be unique and really stand out from the crowd.

Same goes in the seduction game.

If you want to become really successful in it, you have got to differentiate yourself by becoming unique, but in a very exciting and appealing way. You see, if you have set your sights on an attractive woman, the fact is that several other dudes will find her attractive too and would go after them.

Most dude attempt to "convince" a woman to feel attracted to them by showering them with compliments, gifts, buying them expensive dinners, and so forth with the hope that they will fall for them. This will not work.  Why?  Because attraction happens instantly or not at all.

So do not be anything like all the other clueless guys, and start complementing her, being submissive to her demands, using cheesy pick-up lines, because women are immune to these feeble attempts.  These guys are much too boring and easy for them.


 

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